The answer is clear, you can’t win. I had to confront the pain, nurture myself through the numbness. The only thing harder than confronting this is to run away from her question — which in my mind is a question that literally applies to every human being on the planet. International Indigenous Youth Council activist José GomezJosé Gomez [Afterwards], people were congratulating me and I wondered what they were congratulating me about. I hoped that I did some good. “My biggest piece of advice is not to try to paint a perfect picture of the industry, because it’s not perfect,” Arrington said. “The more the industry fights acknowledgment of any kind of wrongdoing, the less the audience will actually trust them.”